dude12345 wrote:Dude my advice is to just always be on the look out, and remain neutral. The girl I am hooking up with who is pregnant I saw on a friends instagram post, added her, talked music and other stuff and here we are. I just saw another one the other day, took a gamble and left a note with my number on her car windshield. We have been texting a bit.
While dating sites may seem the most logical, most every pregnant girl I have gotten close to has been via mutual friends or following on social media and talking to them like normal, gentle people. Also note that most if not all single moms have pregnant friends, so those moms you see could lead you to that path.
All in all, I say decide what you really want. There is a DEFINITE disconnect between the fetish fantasy and actually having a sexual relationship with a pregnant girl. Pregnancy fucking sucks, it makes girls feel like shit especially when theyre at the end and their belly is biggest. Im sure most all girls love their belly but they definitely do not feel sexy, and having comfortable sex for them isnt easy. It seems cam models and porn have given us a skewed view on how pregnant girls are.
Not saying dont go for your dreams, I have and its incredible. Just be realistic.
...You hit the nail on the head. There definitely is a disconnect too many guys with a pregnant fetish have in regards to having a relationship with pregnant women. I've seen it in hundreds of Craig's List Ads in just my area for just this year. Alot of guys really do think it's "that easy" to find a pregnant woman willing to have sex with them. That's not how it works.
Easiest and quickest way to meet a pregnant woman? Just go out and walk around in a public area.
When you see one, walk up to her and say "Hi, can I talk to you for a minute?" without staring at her chest or belly. Wait for her to answer "Yes or No. If you look nervous when you ask she's more likely to say No (unless of course she's busy or in a hurry and is more likely to say No anyway).
If she says Yes, make small talk for a minute or two. It's to your advantage to let her mention the pregnancy first but it's fine if you do as long as it isn't one of the first things you talk to her about. If she brings it up first, ask her how far along she is. If you bring it up first, ask her how far along she is.
If she has an obvious to large bump, she's more likely to say Yes if you ask her to touch her belly. Keep your hands clear of her until she says it's ok touch. For those who've never touched a baby bump, it's like touching a basketbal or soccer ball filled with fluid. If the baby starts kicking, she'll help you feel it.
If you really hit it off with her, she might even show you her bump. That's as much as you should hope for from a pregnant woman you just met. Just don't stare at her belly or look nervous--I want to emphasize both--and it shouldn't take her long to feel comfortable letting you touch her belly. It's the same as someone running their hands through you hair in comparison, that's how intimate it is.
I started meeting pregnant women in August 2014. We never had sex but we did alot of cuddling or just hanging out, enjoying each other's company. All of them were surprised to know there are guys who are into pregnant women but also relieved since they feel like shit toward the end of the pregnancy.
Just having a guy who looks at them as more than a piece of meet or a preggo lady is what they're really looking for. In some cases they got pregnant from a one night stand or the father left them after the pregnancy was confirmed. Their emotions are already haywire because of the pregnancy so keep that in mind.
I just gave out some pretty good advice there. Feel free to use it